You don´t change anyone else but yourself! The fact that others happen to change though is because your concept of them changed. This is something very important to keep in mind. You can´t run around wanting to change someone if your belief still represents their old state. Only the new state and concept of the other person or yourself can bring about the change desired! So if you still talk the same talks about someone else or yourself, you will wait forever for that desired change- this much should be clear. Change yourself and everyone else will adjust.
Ok, now let me go into my new “Why do I love….” question technique that I started using recently. With “Why do I love”, I found a way to use afformations to release the old belief of either self or another person to speed up the process of the desired change in myself- since only I exist (as mentioned above) that has to change first.
Here´s how I use this:
If I want to change someone´s behavior I would say:
- “Why do I love to see X being so supportive loving and caring? It just makes me so happy to see X that way!”
If I want to see someone having a beautiful skin:
- “Why do I love to see X having beautiful skin? It just makes me so happy to see X with this beautiful skin!”
If I want to see someone being employed:
- “Why do I love seeing X enjoying her new job and being very happy? I just love seeing X happily in her job!”
If I want someone to have their desired weight:
- “Why do I love to see X weighing X kg easily and effortlessly? It just makes me happy to see X enjoying her desired weight and looking beautiful in her clothes!”
As you can see, it can be used for everything you can think of.- Just play with it and see the magic unfold!
Remember, manifesting should always be fun, easy and effortless.