Well, you just have to be honest with yourself, because everything is right in front of you and will not change magically until YOU change!
Everything has to do with you!
If you have been reading my posts, you have come to understand it to be a fact. So why still having issues with love?
What are you missing or refusing to see?
Is it ….
The love for yourself? …..Is that love in place and are you fulfilled?
Most people will say “Yes!” here- even though they are well aware that it is not the truth.
If you were fulfilled within yourself, you would not need your SP nor care whether they are in your 3D world or not. You will be happy with yourself and not even require an SP, because whatever they can or will give you, you already give to yourself. You would be enough!
So, if you crave a relationship, let alone a specific person you claim to be the only one for you, you are still missing the key factors of a happy and fulfilled love relationship and that’s self-love and self-worth!
Here´s what you need to understand…
If you fail again and again to manifest your SP, it´s because you are still too focused on what is going on in 3D and therefore keep recalling the old stories.
Your SP´s behavior is nothing but the mirror of the truths that are still facts within you.
They can not change unless you have changed the stories about them within!
Now here I am not talking about the experiences you had with them in the past, I´m talking about the time when those stories were planted in you. When you first had to fight for attention, when someone first made you feel worthless, when you felt like a victim, helpless and powerless. When you had to raise yourself and love was hard to come by. When you felt lonely and unloved. When you learn to cover sadness with a smile or a joke. When all those things happened that shaped the way you were to become. The person you were to become and the people you were to end up surrounded by in your life. That´s the time, when all the issues that you are struggling with concerning your SP were birthed. That´s when you accepted that love had to be worked for, needed to be deserved, fought for and required constant sacrifice. That´s where it all began.
Now, this doesn´t mean that you necessarily have to go back that far to fix those issues because they can be fixed from exactly where you stand now.
Let´s remind ourselves that the past does NOT exist. The reason it seems to be valid, is that we keep on repeating the same stories over and over again and thus bring those experiences to the now.
The past is not a thing as much as the future is none, there is only the NOW!
I know people say this a lot and you all have probably heard it before, but it still is an inevitable fact that you are living every day. If you become aware in your daily life, you will notice this as a truth yourself.
The truth is always visible, you just have to allow yourself to see it.
If something is not going smoothly and you keep finding yourself dealing with the same issues again and again, that is a strong indication that there is a story in place that is preventing what you desire. There is a story in place, that is the cause of the repetition of those issues.
Your SP is only a messenger pointing you to those issues for you to release them and move forward. Your so-called “problems” are no problems, they are the truths that are trying to be released so that you can arrive at your true version and best life.
You are not limited in any way, stop limiting yourself because of an SP!
Understand why they are treating you the way they do, because it has nothing to do with them being bad people, rude, etc. It´s because you have truths within you that represent that type of behavior and they are simply mirroring it back to you.
Your 3D is nothing but the mirror of your inner world!
This should not be new to anyone (unless you are new to Neville), because “everyone is you pushed out” is one of Neville Goddard´s teachings and a fact once you start being aware in your life.
Don´t be mad at your SP because they treat you exactly as you agree within you to be treated. Don´t blame them for a third party if you still carry the truth within you of not being worthy of love, respect, etc.
Stop pointing your finger at something outside of you, when all that is the cause for it is to be found within.
You are wasting your time!- Which you should have noticed by now since it´s probably been a while since you started manifesting your SP and it failed to come to pass.
Be honest with yourself. Please, don´t forget that you are not lying to anyone but yourself.- Other people are only messengers, don´t shoot them! Be grateful that they are pointing something important out to you. Learn to be grateful for people, who disrespect you, treat you like crap, leave you, divorce you, cheat on you, betray you in any way, etc. Those are just the mirrors to the truths that you still hold too dearly within yourself. You need to let them go and move to your true being.
You have never been made to be limited or lack anything in this human experience. Everything has always been there, you just weren´t looking closely enough to notice it.
Be thankful for all the negative things in your life, they are pointing out to you that you can still be so much more than what you are currently claiming yourself to be. They are reminding you to stand taller in certain situations in your life instead of allowing them to victimize you. After all, you are the operant power in your world and nothing happens without your saying- consciously or unconsciously.
Always be the unconditional love that you are!