It never means you don´t deserve something or you should give up on it. It simply means you might not be where your desire is.
What do I mean by that?
OK, let me explain. As I mentioned many times in my posts as well as on our Podcast (Knowing I AM), it is necessary to die to the old man to become the new man! Now, dying in this case is a metaphor and not literal, however, it is the best way to express the process. You are no longer the person or version that you are, but embodying a new or better version of yourself.- Which is always something amazing in my opinion. 
So, before you can fully be the new version of yourself, you have to let go of the old. You have to give the old room to leave for the new one to have that space to arrive. This is the reason why some people might struggle.
You see, you can not continue to recall the old story or speak in your used negative manner about the unwanted in the hope of the wanted to show up. Why?
Because you are NOT focusing on what you want, but on the thing, you do not!
The reason you are not living what you want is not that you can´t have it, it´s because you are not being it. You are too busy being the thing you do not want, to even have enough time to be what you desire. You are not HAVING, because you don´t have enough time to be what you want due to the time used up for the entertainment of the old, the thing you want to replace.
Know what is going on within you.
You can not be controlled by your inner chatter when you know what is happening inside of you at all times.
I know this might sound like a lot of work to many, but that´s only because you have not seriously tried a mental diet yet. It is much easier than one would think.
Before I mastered mental diet at the beginning of my journey several years ago, I too thought that it might be a lot of work. Boy, was I wrong! The first 2 days were a bit of a challenge changing my thoughts and really being on top of my inner conversations. However, by day 3 I pretty much had gained a lot of control of what was going on within and I didn´t even have many thoughts overall. A lot of pointless inner conversations faded away within those few days so I was left calmer and more relaxed. From then on, it got easier to control my inner conversations due to the very limited thoughts I was having throughout the day. By the end of the first week, I had no random thoughts or even thoughts anymore, I was most of the time completely silent within. Believe me, it´s one of the most amazing feelings one can have. The inner silence and peace are truly heavenly. 
(For more details on how to do mental diet, check the Podcast episode “Helpful techniques” on our Podcast “Knowing I AM”)
So, the reason for not getting what you want has only to do with you consciously or unconsciously still entertaining the old story. Watch the things you say, how you react to people or situations, and what makes you angry, mad or sad. All of those things are indications of stories that are still active within you and the reason why the new story can´t show up. If you still spend a lot of time complaining about your SP’s behavior in 3D, the third party, etc? You clearly are not living a happy and fulfilled relationship with them within you. Please don´t be surprised when your SP´s behavior doesn´t change, since all you do is confirm their behavior and so repeating the old story. There is no space for the new and the old to coexist, it´s either the new or the old. MAKE YOUR CHOICE!
Stop blaming 3D for the things you keep manifesting again and again. Start holding yourself accountable for the re-manifesting of the old by letting your mind do whatever it likes. Take control! You are the operant power AT ALL TIMES! …not only when you want to consciously manifest something. Remember, many things you have manifested long before you understood that you actually can control what you experience.
So, you have to start understanding what is always happening in your world. Look at things more carefully- especially the ones that keep repeating themselves. They mean you are continuously doing the same thing, therefore, the same results. Pay attention!
Your desire is always ready to shift you to the desired reality, where everything is available, but you have to be ready to go too!
Make sure you always want your desire as much as it wants you!
You can truly have it all NOW, just get into that state of knowing your desire is here the moment you express it, imagine it or script it!
Please also remove the idea of time. It is just a concept and nothing can stop you!
Remember, there is always a reality where you are the version that you want to be RIGHT NOW!
You are not manifesting anything, you are just shifting to that reality that already IS!
We are no creators BUT choice-makers!
There is nothing to be created because everything already exists! We are only choosing what we want to experience or not – consciously or unconsciously.
Nothing can stand in your way unless you give it the power to do so.
Don´t waste your time complaining about things that aren´t the way you want them to be, only choose your preferred situation or outcome. It´s truly that simple!
Look around you….if you see something that is not a match to your limitless self, adjust it! It is not necessary to stay in an unpleasant situation.
Only choose the best for yourself and everyone around you.
Be always the unconditional love that you truly are!