Sometimes we are trying too hard to achieve a specific state or make something happen when the real key is to just BE.
Just being means you simply stop! Stop trying and doing. Instead allowing yourself to be in the now. The current moment, the second the minute that you are experiencing. Be fully aware of it as if you are watching everything from afar. Focus on nothing, but be aware. Be aware of what goes around you, but don´t be in it. Only observe.
This way you will notice how a situation can in one moment have control of you and in the next be meaningless. They show you how situations can only have power over you if you stay in them.
The moment you choose to step away from whatever is happening in your world and watch it like a movie, you will lose the connection you had to it. You will be able to see the bigger picture and stop reacting.
Everything depends on you and will always act according to your thoughts and beliefs.
You may question this because you feel it would be too much of a stretch for you to be that powerful. However, the fact is that no one else brings things to life in your reality but you. You can even give credit to a god outside of you, but the truth will still remain that it is you and ONLY you playing all the parts. This is not a matter of right or wrong, but a fact. One that you can put to the test at any given time.
Don´t give your power away and let things control you. No matter how complex something seems you got it under control. Only take back the control and stop the momentum from going and change the course of the event. Be calm and refocus on your desired result. Have the persistence of your desire and know it is there!- Even if you don´t have any evidence to prove that yet.
Everything that you want is always given to you!
There are no exceptions. The reason that you don´t stay in your faith and keep the mental attitude of already being that or having that is what delays your manifestation.
There is no one who will favor you or be the reason you don´t have what you want, but YOU.
Keep that in mind. You will always only go as far as you allow yourself to go. No parent, boss, sibling, friend, etc can stop a desire when your faith is there! Just be it and everything will fall into place.
You are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe this is the only reason you do not see it. – Neville Goddard