Loving another is the journey of Loving Yourself! (Nov, 2020)

That journey will only be smooth, easy, effortless and a walk in the park when you fully have come to the understanding of the above statement.

Love is an inside job!

I hear people often tell me they have self-love, self-respect and all of that and they don´t need their SP (specific person), BUT they only want that ONE person.

So what is wrong here?

Yes, a contradiction. In the one hand having the focus only on that ONE person and yet thinking of having the inner fulfillment of one´s love, worth and respect at the same time.

When you are looking for love outside of yourself, you have not yet found it within yourself.

As Neville often beautifully said, “You can not serve two masters”. It is not possible to feel loved and the absence of love at the same time. You can not be fulfilled within yourself and focus your inner fulfillment only on “that” one person at the same time.

Yes, you can pretend that you can be both, but the truth that is active within you will ALWAYS be the result of everything that you experience in your life.

God can NOT be mocked!

This is one very important truth to bear in mind! You can try all the tricks in the book, but at the end of it ALL the truths that you carry within you- be it your desire or the lack of it- is what will come forth into your life.

Nothing else is visible in your world but your inner beliefs.

Whatever you agree to is what shows up in your world. You might have a hard time believing this, but when you become aware of what is going on within you, you will come to the facts of this truth.

The desire of searching for something is the fact of lacking that something within us.

Our desires are the signs of what is missing within us. That´s why we are craving things in the first place.

The feeling is always what you are after not the thing itself.

Often you will notice when manifesting a desire, that once you have successfully brought your desire into your experience your feeling for it becomes neutral. It´s no longer that something you wanted to have so badly and couldn´t live without, etc…. it became “Ok, cool ….hm, what next?”.

Why is that?

Well, the reason for the craving is fulfilled.- At least for now, if it was focused on material things. In that case, it will come again in the form of another material need and can go on for quite some time. But once you understand that the key to those material desires was the feeling in the first place, you will see that the implementation of that feeling is the only way to be fulfilled.

Once you have become one with your desire, the desiring vanishes.

When the truth within you awakes that all that you desire you already have within you, then you will be fulfilled. As long as that is not the case, you will still think and believe that someone or something outside of you has to do that for you.

Here´s the thing…

Everyone outside of you comes from within you.

There is NO ONE out there!

It truly is like that! Everyone is only the reflection of yourself- regardless of how impossible it seems to you. It is the only truth, because they spring from your inner beliefs.

Nothing comes into your world without you putting it there first!

You are the operant power, the writer, director, producer and the actor in your life´s play. There is no one up there in the sky pulling your strings and writing on their board all the good or bad things you do. This fact of you controlling it all is not only something people say, it is something that you experience on a daily basis. If you fail to see it, it´s because you are still on autopilot or giving too much power to things outside of you.

Manifestation happens all the time!

Every moment is YOUR manifestation- be it conscious or unconscious. Chance is not giving or taking anything from you. In fact, chance is you!- Because EVERYTHING is you.

So the next time your SP doesn´t act accordingly, remember that he/she DOES! He/She is acting exactly the way you expected him/her to. He/She is like that because you still hold that version of him/her as a belief within you. So he/she can not act differently if you keep writing that same script. Change the script!

If you don´t like that behavior revise it, intend it, afform it or imagine it differently. It will adjust accordingly, just stay faithful to your desired result.

If you are already manifesting a relationship, marriage, engagement, etc... Stick to your end!

Have faith in your end, because it is ALWAYS unfolding!

Stop messing with the middle! Trying to change everything that happens along the way is doing just that. It is not necessary when you have decided that you are married or already in a relationship with that person. If something doesn´t go the way you want it….IT DOES NOT MATTER! Why? Well, if your end is being happily married to him/her then EVERYTHING that is NOT THAT simply does not matter. It can not, because it is not your desired end. So you simply see it as the aftermath of your old beliefs and accept it as that and refocus on your end.

If you live in your end you ARE what you desire.

Nothing that happens outside of you can affect you if the truth of being with your SP has become a reality within you. It truly is that simple.- If it´s not, then you are still living the truth that you are not together. Which can only result in your outer world reflecting that belief back to you. In that case, go and do the necessary work. Listen to the podcast “Knowing I AM” or go through the topic “Tips and Tricks” for techniques to help you refocus on your desire and release limitations/restrictions you set on yourself consciously or unconsciously.

It is all within you!

It can not be different, because this human experience is an inner game. It takes place solely within you!

Take responsibility, adjust and rewrite as often as you can. At the end of the day, it is your game. Make it a great one! 

ALWAYS and ONLY imagine the best life for yourself!

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