Today, while having a shower earlier, I suddenly had this light-bulb moment where I realised something….
The old story doesn´t pop back up because you haven´t fully arrived in the new yet, but because you DID!
It´s not that you are still attached to the old, but you are attaching to the new and you are about to close the door to the old completely.- As in you are carrying your stuff to the cab taking you to your new place (embodiment of the new state). The “it´s over” conversation (you chose a new state) already took place a few days ago and you are liking the new found freedom and even looking forward to the new chapter. While you are grabbing your last bag and saying goodbye to your ex (the old story), he/she tries to convince you to stay. Even comes up with reasons (fears, doubts, etc.) you should give him/her (old story) another chance and think the whole thing through.- Knowing it is over.
Now doesn´t this sound familiar?
And, I´m sure, we all know what happens when we give in to the ex (old story) …. nothing changes and the need to leave (your desire) returns sooner rather than later to remind us that life can be so much better.
Don´t give in to the old story!
It comes, because you are gone! Be grateful for the time you had (experiences and growth), give thanks and move on for good!
I know I used to think that if the old story comes back up, it needs to be readdressed and I should “dig deeper”. But that´s not true! In fact, it´s a wrong way of thinking and yet another story. And since there is the belief that “it has to mean something deeper” in place it ends up doing just that.- Not because it actually does mean “something deeper”, but because I manifested that “something deeper.” This is the only reason we sometimes struggle with living in the end. We let the old story convince us that it´s not over yet and there is still something to be done before we can move on or arrive.
This reminds me of the law of attraction when you are told to remove blockages….Years and years pass by and there you are still removing blocks- in fact you have more of them now then when you started and it does not seem to end anytime soon. BUT you don´t know that, because you think with “focusing on your blocks” you are moving closer to your best version, yet this behaviour is moving that version further away from you.
Let´s take this even deeper….
So what I was about to say is whatever comes up from the old story when you have moved to a new state, is just a way to get you back. There is no deeper meaning behind that then to see whether you are fully embodying the new state or falling back into the old.
The moment you desire something you are ready to have it!
Everything that needs to be adjusted will happen naturally through the bridges of events- the process to the fulfillment of your desire in the 3D world. This means the unfolding of your desire will get you wherever you need to be automatically while you are living in the wish-fulfilled state. If you still need to address something from the old that will happen on its own, you will see the truth through the eyes of the new man (new state). That´s the way we grow when we have left the old and face it from the point of view of the new.
You don´t have to fall back into the old man to see what you did wrong and try to fix it so you can successfully embody the new man for good. Simply stop giving the ex a new chance!
I´m noticing now that this is what I was doing when I would fail to successfully shift to my desired reality. I would check this reality (CT, current reality) and see what I missed this time and why I failed, expecting to find answers- what I always would since I would constantly manifest them. That way I would create a cycle that would keep me in the old story.- When all I needed to do is to “stop giving the ex another chance”. Focusing on the new and being grateful for the old, giving thanks and moving on. Very simple, yet it took me a while to realise what was going on.
Your old story is over when a new desire comes upon you!
You have experienced it to the utmost and a new desire is the confirmation that you are ready to close that chapter NOW!
You really should see love relationships in this exact way. I AM/God within would not give you the desire to aim for something better if you were not done and ready to move on from that relationship.
Don´t be afraid! Walk in faith towards that desire to leave and let I AM surprise you.
I AM never fails you!
Every desire is given to you for a greater purpose and is always better than what you had. That´s a promise!
Now let´s all leave the old man behind and live the new man for good!